If confusion is the first step to knowledge, I must be a genius.
Author: Larry Leissner
All of us get confused at times, We are told things by our bosses, our spouses or life partner, advisors, we don't quite get it. Many times in order not to offend, or to appear like we are dumb, we don't clear up the confusion. My spirit guides have always shared with me that we must ask questions, we must know deep in our heart the answers we are looking for. When others question us, we should listen carefully, see how we are saying our answers then make sure they have clearly got the message we are wanting to convey to them. Sometimes I have heard where clients complain that an advisor they talked to just repeated themselves. IF the advisor feels that the client didn't catch what they are saying perhaps from being too panicked, too worried, too stress, perhaps from not completely understanding the message, the advisor will start to speak more slowly, again to reinforce. Even when being criticized, listen carefully to what the person is saying even if it isn't at all true, but see what we can learn about that person, that event that we can learn about or from. clear up the confusion. Make sure that we are learning from each ocurrence in our life.
Frugal tips: Check our insurance and credit card statements. This past week, I had a major store chain W.... charge my insurance for medication I never picked up. I had changed pharmacies and didn't know that my physician's office had called the wrong pharmacy. Two weeks later, I'm out of medication, finding out that the insurance company had been charged for medication I never picked up. Maybe this is why our health ins. is so expensive. Today I had to call A....(it is not AT&T). I am being charged for dialup service on my cc. when there isn't a phone line even connected to my computer for even a fax machine. How they got my cc number is beyond me. Hmmm. Well, watch all our bank statements, cc statements, even ins statements to make sure mistakes, identity theft etc is not happening. Even the receipts in the stores. The other day the clerk at my fav grocery charged one item 5 times. She did catch it but it reminds us to check these before we leave the store!! OMGoodness.
I am running a little late due to calling the Dial up service, It is not AT&T. It is other one. I will be here my usual hours. love ya, Me, BOb and Bets
